SOCIAL SLITHERS
2012-04-28 at 05:11 pm
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I keep hearing it. Every once and awhile they keep coming back and saying it. Now that may be the point,you know that they,”keep coming back”,but coming back from where is what you have to ask yourself. How come they are not still here on this site….? Well perhaps….just perhaps they were asked to leave,or just maybe they were banned.
Why were they banned….? or asked to leave ?
Well usually because they broke the terms of service,or just could not handle it here,that is after all the only real reason.Oh sure they will say it was because this one,or that one did not like them,or because of their political views,or because the administration was against them,or a whole host of other made up reasons rather than accept that they were banned for specific reasons like I already said that were of there own responsibility to uphold…..
Only thing was…that it was them that could not uphold their part of that agreement.
Why just the other day another one slithered back here under an assumed personality and there they were on this site bad mouthing this site,you know just like they always did. Now ask yourself why anyone would bother to slither back onto this site to do that.I mean move on with your life,take responsibility for not being able to be on this site instead of sneaking back here to bad mouth it you know. If Friendburst is such a horrible site then why do they bother to condemn it on their other sites and then slither back here all the time to bad mouth it, if so how come it continues to grow…you would think they could better utilize there time by telling people why their site that they are now on is so much better than other sites.In fact the reason that they do not take this avenue says a whole lot not only about that site,but who they really are as well.
I see that view for what it really is…,just more malcontents unwilling to accept their own irresponsibility …..
When I left my old site I did so because I did not like the direction it was headed,I did not like the fact that they just would not listen to the people on their site,I could not accept all their bull crap so artfully disguised or so they thought to appear like they actually gave a damn.Now once I left because I could not handle it I did not continually go back there to complain and bitch about why I felt I had too leave.
I did not make it my job to bad mouth it everywhere that I went because this was futile as I saw it.
It is pure insanity to act like this from my perspective and that would one can imagine lead anyone to believe that it was me with the problem not them.
I never go back there anymore,why would I want too ????
To me that just shows why the person were banned in the first place. Some of them still try to slither back here even after a couple of years….hey get over it….you blew it and that is the only reason you are not on the best social site on the internet.
That’s right the best social site on the net,I said it,and I will stand by it .
What other site actually asks the people on it what they would like and then actually works at implementing it….?
What site allows people to blog about what is truly important to them irrespective of their personal feelings.That’s right I said it and I meant it .All you slithers who continually slither back on here under assumed personalities that shows me just how mentally unstable you really are….gezzzzz even after a year or two you cannot let it go and accept that you are no longer here because of YOU…lololololololol
I’ll tell ya straight up seeing how you still feel the need to return to this site to bad mouth it only vilifies the reason you were asked to leave,and I for one am completely happy that the very people you now continue to attack asked you to do so.
I say bye-bye to you gratefully and thank Kevin and all the rest of the administration for looking out for the best interest of this site and the people on it. Sure I know how even this will be looked at,in that typical BAD attitude that these slithers always seem to have,but really I couldn’t give a nickle about it really….lololol
You blew it so stop slithering back here and let the ones who are still here enjoy the best social site on the internet…
The blocked list grows,and grows,and thankfully at that …………..
Just saying is all…..
Thank you
D.Lemur
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I am on this site almost from the beginning. I intent to stay.
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Yes I hear you there my friend but it is important to note that you are not only here because you want to still be here,but also because you have upheld your part of the agreement.
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Well written my friend !!! Kudos for the admins
Haters and trolls this way out :::::
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D_LEMUR Reply:
April 28th, 2012 at 6:12 pm
I like this Absinthe …lolol….any way out will do just fine just so long as they remain out….
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Awn ….Lemur
Thank you , you really took the words right out of my mind lol..
You are special
Thanks again it’s good to feel that we are supported
Hugs
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D_LEMUR Reply:
April 28th, 2012 at 6:47 pm
You know what Angelica it really needed to be said…..
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hmm…I was never banned..and rlly I don’t see where this banning fixxation came from..probably just some One who wanted to discredit Fb saying”oh oh blohhers are being kicked off” WELL Many OF MY FAV BLOGGERS JUST WENT.
Out of Personal reasons.And sometimes came back…but not regulary.
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LethalAmbrose Reply:
April 28th, 2012 at 7:09 pm
*hh*->*gg*
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D_LEMUR Reply:
April 28th, 2012 at 7:22 pm
Believe me Lethal occasional bloggers here are not who this blog was directed at….nope not in the slightest…..and I know you were not banned or anything else….:)
This was intended to address some recent issues as well as some ongoing ones.
I just felt it needed to be said basically and so I said it….
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I agree with what you have written here D. I think some who left, moved on for personal reasons as Lethal mentions, others were malcontents with delusions of grandeur. Generally speaking…many (not all) had agendas & put them first rather than finding the balance of contributing a view along with maintaining peace & respect towards others. If problematic contentions issues arise & things aren’t seen ‘their’ way, then it is everyone elses fault & mostly the Admin for not supporting their view. So they will rant & attack…or delete their profile in a ‘huff’ or end up banned by Admin for the problems they create…only to go elsewhere to bad mouth & justify themselves. But the irony is as you allude to…they may eventually cool down & realise that for their defiant & egotistical attitude they lost a good thing. Sneaking back in under an alias is never going to be the same I don’t think, thus menacing troubles & frustrations come out again. Seeking re-instatement is hard on the ego, especially if again rejected.
From Admins viewpoint, I don’t think maintaining a social site would be at all easy, especially having to deal with so many complaints & issues that get voiced. Everyone thinks they are right & have been wronged & want ‘justice’. I saw this a lot in the Blogs especially in the early days here. But in perspective, the Admin on these smaller social forums own & run them…they are not lawyers or judges, they don’t get paid & yet spend so much time trying to sort out the many, many arguments, bullying, threats amongst members, stalking, political, religious arguments…you name it…from all kinds of weird & wonderful characters. I would have been banning a few a lot sooner…but I do know the Admin here tries their best to be fair & above all keep the peace & others here happy. A tough, tough job…with no real reward except a hope that perhaps one day the site will grow over time & some financial return…maybe.
In the meantime, I agree this place is the best of social interaction forums available….credit to Admin & volunteers for making it so. And it’s free…which again is a huge argument as to why I wouldn’t put up with ANY crap if I owned it. For me, I’m grateful to have a place to post my inspiration, say hi to a few friends & read a few blogs & bulletins, click on a few links….& give voice to things that I care about, but always do so with respect to others in mind.
Thanks for writing this blog D. Peace.
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D_LEMUR Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 12:26 am
Well I have to completely agree with you here,and I am not one of the more subtle
people on this site….:),yet even I remain here….so….let that speak for itself.
Another thing that I just do not see is people lending there support to those who are back here only to complain,snivel,and whine about having been asked to leave in the first place.Everyone knows their intent and yet some still friend them,and that to me is just supporting there point of view.Me I don’t buy it.
If you friend a person who is no friend of this site I don’t want any part of what your selling……….
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WOW! I popped in to read Marigv’s blog that she linked to BFF on Facebook. While here, I thought I would pop in and say “Hi” to old friends, but I see only you and Joko have blogged recently. I’m really surprised to see this. Just want you to know that *I* am not slithering anywhere. IDK who you are talking about, or why, but just so you know…nobody kicked me out of here. I just prefer to blog on my blogspot and not on a social site. I tend to forget this site, so don’t get here often. I’m sorry to hear so many have left. I don’t know where everyone went. I see a couple of them here and there on Facebook or Google+. Where else they all went to, I don’t know. So sorry to see this… Well… “HI”… Mission accomplished.
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Marigv Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 2:35 pm
Hey….you are welcomed here like anyone else.
A lot of good improvements are made here especially for the bloggers. Do you remember the blogger requests? Well, Kevin made them. 
Glad you step by.
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D_LEMUR Reply:
April 29th, 2012 at 4:32 pm
Yea Darlene I surely wasn’t talking about you…no this was about a very select demented few who continue to snivel to whoever is stupid enough to give them the time of day and return here to do it when they can….
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Darlene ~Bloggity Blogger~ Reply:
April 30th, 2012 at 12:18 pm
LOL… I guess I should hang around more to see what’s going on here. I’m getting bored with Facebook anyway…
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I wonder how many thought they were banned when they actually weren’t?
Do to whatever glitch, I am greeted with a message telling me “You Have Been Banned From This Site” every single time I have to log in. I click on “profile”, and everything’s fine, but this is a pretty serious glitch which could lead to some serious butthurt.
I was told it would be “looked into,” but yet, it persists.
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D_LEMUR Reply:
May 1st, 2012 at 1:51 pm
If that’s the case then you really should bring it to Kevins attention J….
Because it hurts the site big time…..
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May 2nd, 2012 at 6:30 pm
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